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Deusi Bhailo Story

Day-1 It was about 6pm in the evening. Some of our friends had planned to play deuso bhailo to collect some fund for nearby orphanage home. We have planned to play from 6-10 pm daily for three days. So, according to our plan I reached to a nearby ground at 6 pm. Many of them had already gathered and some of them were still coming. I could see many new faces there. One of my closest friend arrived by holding a madal. When I saw her I ran to her. Then the group decided to go to the first house. Hey vana vana vai ho! a known voice hit my ear. And everyone said deusire… This deusire process continued for about 10 minutes. Then music started playing in a speaker. All had made a semicircle and there was a space in the middle. Suddenly, a boy jumped into the space and danced. I had seen him for the first time. I could not recognize him and asked my friend who he was. No idea she replied. I felt while jumping on the stage he also jumped into my heart. I am actually still confused whether I was...

Story

       The Internship   continued.. We talked little bit about the intern girl. I said my brother to forget that girl and start studying since his exam was near. He said he will try and we kept on talking on another topic. Sunday I thought he won't go the bank again but I knew that he had gone when I returned from the college. After he returned bank from the bank I asked why he went to the bank he replied I wanted to go and Pushpa also requested me to come. I said ohh and laughed in a teasing manner. He again started talking about Pushpa. He was saying the girl also likes him but she wants to tell only after his exam so that he won't get distracted during exam. I never wants my brother to be hurt so I said him not to think about her and focus on his study. Monday I wanted to see that girl so I went to the bank saying I wanted to open a bank account. My brother was somehow shocked when he saw me in bank all of a sudden. When I reached the bank they were both...

Sexual harassment-III continued...

 After reading the post published by my girlfriend Sikha in facebook I wanted to continue what happened after that... What she said in her post was all correct. She was not being able to talk to me for a week. I understood her and keep on supporting her. After some days she came and said she doesn't want to talk to me . I was so shocked why that happened asked her if I did anything wrong .  'Yeah I am now irritated by you and I want break up. I want to continue my study'. Listening this I tried to convince her that our relationship won't disturb our but she said bye and blocked me. I was so depressed after the break up. I had loved her truly but she didn't understand me. After that I stayed away from the girls. One day one of my school friend Jeny  texted me. We started talking and became closer. I felt like she understood me better than Sikha. After few months we started liking each other. And this time Jeny proposed me on her birthday. I was confused  and said I w...

Sexual harassment-III

 Hey cutie! My phone vibrated showing this msg request. I checked that was a msg from an unknown guy. I visited his profile. He was good looking thought should I accept his request? and again I thought why to accept I don't know him thinking these I kept my phone aside and continued with my project work.  After an hour again my phone vibrated again and the message from the same guy saying hey girl accept my request na. I found this guy to be cringe and ignored him. I continued with my project because next was the last date for submission of the project work and I had lots of works to do. I did my project and was about to sleep and again I got the message from the same guy 'hey can we please be friends' seeing this I thought he is a nice guy and accepted his request. Now we started talking we talked about our he was doing engineering in India. He was from India and I am from Nepal we talked about our countries. He was doing engineering and I was doing medical so we shared so...

Sexual harassament-II

 Let's start... This is a real story of a girl being harassed in public place in front of my eyes.. It was about 6 am in the morning. I was rushing to the public bus to go to my college. My college used to start from 6:30 and I was going to be late if there was traffic jam. I fortunately found a seat and sat and was thinking if I will be late what to do... The bus about to go a girl suddenly entered to the bus. The bus was so full and no any seats were vacant. So the girl stood up in the bus. In next station many other people got in the bus and now the bus was completely full. Even people who were standing were so congested. A guy  got into the bus again in next station saying he was getting so late. He was near to the girl which I was observing from the beginning. The girl seems to be so hurried for college she was  in her college dress. That guy went to the girl. Then slowly that guy took his hand towards the girl's waist the girl thought it was accidentally and said to...

Sexual harassment-I

  Harassment means some activities that humiliates or embarrasses you. Sexual harassment of sexual nature including unwelcome or inappropriate promise of rewards in exchange for sexual favours.   Today I am gonna share a real story of sexual harassment that my friend had gone through. That happens in her life when she doesn't even understand she was sexually harassed. She now can feel that she was sexually harassed by her own uncle.   Let's start her true story. She was a child of 8 years and she doesn't know anything about sex and harassment. Her uncle was about 22 years old. She used to love her uncle a lot and she used to think her uncle loves her the most.   Once she went to her uncle's house and her uncle was wearing new watch which used go glow in dark. She was so impressed and said that she wants to sleep with her uncle to see that watch glowing in the night. So she slept with her uncle. At about midnight when she was half awake she found her pants were r...

Rape cases in Nepal

 Today I am sharing what I feel about increasing rape cases in Nepal. Yeah, rape is an inhumane action but people are involved in this crucial action. In context of Nepal girls are more being raped than the boys.   In Nepal according to police 2144 rape cases and 687 attempt to rape cases are reported in fiscal year 2019/20 but this is not the true number of rape cases  in Nepal. Most the people in power hide the cases through their power and money . Also, most of Nepalese girls worry about their dignity thinking what others think by knowing they were sexually harassed.  In male dominated country like Nepal people blame the victim for being the victim. We can take an example for that since rape cases are increasing in Nepal most of the people say that it is because of the dresses that the girl wear. According to them girls wear short dresses showing their body parts which excite the guy and as a result they are raped. But the saddest part even the girls in her c...